ADHD Essentials

19: iGotThis with Rich Shramm, ADHD Dad & App Developer

Rich Shramm is a dad who has ADHD, whose kids also have ADHD.  Turns out, there's an app for that.  Because Rich created the iGotThis app. 

As Rich says, "iGotThis is a task-focused, life management solution".  It helps kids build their self-esteem by supporting their success. And, helps parents monitor and support their kids through life’s daily productivity challenges.  

 

We discuss how the app supports kids in staying on track, and helps parents keep track of things. (It can even help you plan for things that are a year away!)  But this episode is about more than the app.  We also discuss the emotional impact ADHD can have on those who have it (even if we don’t call it the Wall of Awful), how small failures can lock up our kids’ potential, and how breaking tasks into smaller chunks supports success.

This is not a commerical.  I was not compensated in any way for this episode.  I just wanted to share an exciting new tool with you.

Learn more about iGot This by going to their website, https://www.iGotThis.com/ 

If you dig it, sign up for a FREE 15 day trial at https://www.iGotThis.com/signup. Once you've signed up , you can download the free app from the Apple app store or Google Play store and sign in with your newly created account.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com.  

Let me know what you thnk of today's episode by emailing me at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And if you'd like to be in the upcoming coaching groups, the email above is good for that too!

 

18: "What's The Skill Set That's Missing?" with Chandler Creedon, School Psychologist

Chandler Creedon is a veteran educator with over 40 years of experience, working as a school psychologist, counselor, and college professor. He’s also a former professor of mine, and one of my mentors.  It was an honor to have him on the show.

Learn more about today's show at http://www.adhdessentials.com/whats-skill-set-thats-missing/

I'm going to be launching ADHD parent coaching groups soon. If you're interested, email me here: Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

17: The Baskin Robbins of ADHD with Kate Barrett, ADHD Mother, Wife, and Coach

It was great to get to talk to my friend Kate Barrett again.  I know her from the ADHD coaching world.  She's the founding coach of Coaching CVilleout of Charlottesville, VA, as well as the mother of sons and the wife of a husband who have ADHD.  Her love for her family really shines through in this episode, and her coaching skills do as well.

If you're in the Charlottesville, VA area, and need a coach, I encourage you to reach out to Kate.  In today's episode, she shares only shares a few of her coaching strategies, but I'm sure they'll be a huge help.  We talk about treating ADHD issues as a symptom of a problem, rather than a problem in themselves, the value of ownership, and how to manage your non-ADHD kid, if the kid with ADHD tends to get more of the focus.

 

Kate can be found at https://coachingcville.com.

As usual, fee free to email me at brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And the website is www.ADHDessentials.com.

Enjoy the show!

16: The Struggle Makes Us Stronger, with Gabriel Villarreal, Strength & Condition Coach and Mental Health Counselor Specialized in ADHD

In this episode, I'm talking exercise and fitness, while battlnig a cold!  Gabriel Villarreal is the owner of ADHD Counseling in the Roanoke Valley, as well as a strenth and conditioning coach.  It's that latter bit that we focus on in the episode.  We talk about the importance of struggling, growth from failure, and the neurological benefits of exercise for the ADHD brain.  (Though, that doesn't coem unitl the end.)

Gabriel was great to talk to, and you can be sure he's going to come back.  Both on and off the air we noticed that there were many intersting places for us to go in futire episodes.  I expect he'll become a "friend of the show".

 

Learn more about Gabriel at www.RoanokeADHD.com.

Or find him on his Facebook page.

Or just email him at gabriel@roanokeadhd.com.

 

And as usual, I can be reached at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And the episode website is http://www.adhdessentials.com/podcast-16-struggle-makes-us-stronger-gabriel-villarreal-strength-condition-coach-mental-health-counselor-specialized-adhd/

Enjoy the show!

 

ADHD Friendly Systems in the Household with Marina Darlow, Mother & ADHD Systems Expert

Marina Darlow from Vision Framework visits us to talk about how creating systems can benefit families affected by ADHD, as well as what makes for a good system.

We aslo discuss wanting to do good by your family, the characteristics of a good system, the benefits of having good systems, managing time vs. managing energy, and the value of transition rituals.

You can learn more about Marina at www.vision-framework.com

or at the following social media links:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VisionFramework/
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/VisionFramework/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marinadarlow/

Find more indepth show notes, and some free gifts from Maria, here:
http://www.adhdessentials.com/podcast-15-adhd-friendly-systems-household/

And as usual, I can be reached at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

Enjoy the show!

 

Flipped Classrooms and The Wall of Awful (Finally!) with Denielle Stasa, Middle School English Teacher

In today's episode, I get to talk to Denielle Stasa, a middle school English teacher, and former co-worker of mine.  Denielle has flipped her classroom.  Her students watch instructional videos she’s created for them at home for homework, and then apply the lessons by doing the work in class with her where she can better support them, and monitor their progress.  

We talka bout how she flipped her classroom, the benefit of focusing on the process, and how success in writing leads to success in reading for her students.  There's lots of important ideas in here that can be readily applied both at home and at school.

Oh, and I finally describe the Wall of Awful.

I'm going to be launching ADHD parent coaching groups soon. If you're interested, email me here: Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

Seeing an ADHD Diagnosis as a Manual with Kimberly, mother of a son with ADHD

Kimberly has a son diagnosed with ADHD, and she sees that diagnosis as a manual to help her better understand how to help him succeed.  Over the course of the interview, she shares her son's passions and struggles, as well as the things she has learned as a result of their family's journey.

Kimberly has some amazing stories about her son, including the challenge of her son's Geography test, his misadventures with his grandfather, and the various entrepreneurial ventures he's been pursuing in his quest for a Tesla.

Let me know what you think of today's episode by emailing me at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

 

P.S. You can find The Jordan Harbinger Show here.

Reducing The Barrier to Entry with Brendan Mahan, ADHD Poet

Today's episode is a bit different.  Due to the recent snow storms, and an exceptionally busy month, I don't have the 6-8 hours needed to edit a full interview.  In today's episode, I go back to my English teacher roots, and blend them with my ADHD coach skills to create something short, sweet, and actionable.  I hope you enjoy it.

We're looking at the struggle that comes about for those of us with ADHD when the "barrier for entry" is too high, and thinking about how we can reduce those barriers.  Oh, and I read an original poem.  (I promise it all makes sense.)

Let me know about your expereicnes/struggles with barriers to entry, and how you're overcome them at  Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

A copy of the poem in today's episode can be found here:

http://www.adhdessentials.com/barriertoentrypoem/

 

Respect as the Foundation of Family with Jessica, ADHD Mom

In today’s episode, I talk to Jessica. She ahs ADHD, her husband ahs ADHD, and one of her two sons also has ADHD. Like many good ADHDers, Jessica has thrown out the rulebook for how things are “supposed to be done”, and is doing what works instead. As a family, they’ve built a foundation of mutual respect, and they address problems head on. They don’t play games, or hold grudges, and it’s clearly working for them. 

We talk about ADHD at home, in school, and in sewing class. And Jessica shares stories about her dad’s lack of a filter, her own time in high school, and why little boys and living plants don’t mix.

Let me know what you think of today's episode by emailing me at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

And, as usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

Show Notes:
http://www.adhdessentials.com/podcast-11-building-foundation-respect-jessica-adhd-mom/

 

Zerberts, Sensory Challenges, and Crayons in the Dryer with Eric Tivers, Parent with ADHD of a thrice-exceptional son

Today’s episode is a conversation with my friend Eric Tivers. Eric is an ADHD coach, and licensed clinical social worker. He’s the host of the ADHD reWired podcast, and runs the ADHD reWired adult coaching groups.

But in this episode, he’s talking as a dad who has ADHD, parenting a thrice-exceptional child who is gifted, and who has autism and ADHD. We discuss the challenges of transferring skills from work to home, the role sensory stimulation plays in his life, including how overwhelming it can be, and he tells the epic tale of cleaning crayons out of his dryer.

 

Eric can be found at www.ADHDreWired.com.

You can learn more about his coaching groups at www.coachingreWired.com.

And the reWired podcast can be found at www.ADHDreWired.com/podcast

Let me know what you think of today's episode by emailing me at Brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

As usual, I can be found at www.ADHDessentials.com. 

 

Show Notes

 

2:03    Hardest job he’s ever had

3:15    Son doesn’t know why he did, Dad doesn’t know why he didn’t

3:43    Planning and being “on” as dad

3:59    Son has always needed/gotten less sleep

4:34    Transitioning is hard because Eric is “state-based”

6:05    Getting home after son is in bed

6:44    Working on shifting gears

6:54    Adulting is hard

7:10    Making a dentist appointment

7:32    “ADHD is frustrating and comical at the same time.”

7:43    “…and I’m responsible for a life!”

8:13    Eric is grateful for wife and her acceptance of his ADHD

9:09    “Acceptance grows when gratitude shows up.”

9:23    Phone calls are hard

10:29  Supportive spouses supplying strategies

11:09  Filling tires and taking Adderall

11:55  The struggle to bring successful work strategies home

12:12  Environmentally-based to-do lists

12:37 Dad needs checklists and reminders for homework, too!

13:09  On the transfer of concepts from one environment to another

14:02  Generalization of concepts

14:11 Stepping back professionally from Autism work

15:24  Uncarved pumpkins

16:04  Needing a plan at home as well as at work

16:38  On trying to remember names

17:29  How to fake it when you forget a teacher’s name

18:23  Wild wife memory skills

19:00  Eric the hippy

19:21 Never enough time

20:10  Fluff only after 8pm

21:12  “Dishwasher moments”

22:04  Wandering assumptions

22:32  Undermined at the gym

23:12  Father and son podcasts and projects

23:46  Creating space for son to “let him be him”

24:05 Potty humor

24:33 Son is linguistically gifted

26:13  On Pokemon

28:05  On wrestling and rough play

28:40  Activate Zerbert-Tron

29:21  Teaching boundaries and body respect

30:13  The power and challenge of reassuring hugs

30:55  Eric opens his parenting toolbox

31:05  The row your boat strategy

31:29  Developing cues to breathe deeply

32:36 Meet them where they are, and start with sensory needs

33:40  Teach self-regulation strategies

34:45  Give Feedback with self-esteem in mind

35:42  X-Ray blankets and dentist nerves

36:14  Family visits and sensory overwhelm

37:45  Ending Essentials

38:46  Eric’s not-so proud parenting moments

42:37  Wrap-up